Building Healthy Relationships, Monday, Period 4

[stickitupmyjinx]

Vanessa was feeling more confident this week, because she'd already gotten her 'this is going to be a disaster' freakout out of the way the day before, when she'd woken up to find all of her clothes gone and become afraid she was going to have to teach this class in a bed sheet fashioned into a toga. The return of her clothes had left her much more calm about things.

"Communication," she said to her class. "You can use a lot of really cliche words like 'backbone' and key' in this sentence: 'Communication is the 'blank' to any healthy relationship.' Because here's the thing: they're all true. You don't really know someone if all you ever do is make small talk or have sex with them. You have to actually talk to them. And if you feel like you can't talk to them, like either they're closed off or you don't want to share information with them, then that's a red flag and you need to consider what that means. And when you encounter conflict in your relationship--which you definitely will--you have to talk about it. The silent treatment doesn't get anyone anywhere, and neither does letting one person assume they know what's going on while you go behind their back and do what you were going to do anyway." Wade.

( Not that she was still mad or anything... )

Music Appreciation, Monday, Period 1

[furnaceface]

//Alright,// Jono said, nodding to the class once it looked as though everyone had settled in. //You've got a week of classes behind you, now. Hopefully any of you who are new to the island have started to settle in, and those of you who aren't new might be adjusting to the new scenery out past the water. So it seems perhaps a little fitting that this week, we'll be discussing music that talks about home.//

( Home Sweet Home )

[OOC: Open!]

Working the Long Con, Tuesday, First Period

[talentforlying]

"Right then. First order of business. All your new IDs arrived via the wonders of the US post," John stated abruptly, once the bell rang as he started flipping them on the desks of the students to which they belonged. "I'll ask you no questions and you tell me no lies as far as these are concerned, got it?"

"Today, we're gonna talk about William Thompson. He was an American criminal and con artist whose deceptions caused the term 'confidence man' to be coined. So all of you aspiring con-artists can thank him for giving you a job title."

"Operating in New York City in the late 1840s, a genteely-dressed Thompson would approach an upper-class mark, pretending they knew each other, and begin a brief conversation. After initially gaining the mark's trust, Thompson would ask 'Have you confidence in me to trust me with your watch until tomorrow?' Upon taking the watch -- or, occasionally, money -- Thompson would depart, never returning the watch. This is because rich people are idiots, and it would have been considered 'rude' to refuse someone of their own social standing, and potentially caused a minor scandal if got out that they were scrooges."

"Thompson was arrested and brought to trial in 1849, in a case that made newspaper headlines across the country. The New York Herald, recalling his explicit appeals to the victim's "confidence," dubbed him the "confidence man." Per the Oxford English Dictionary, the first known use of the term was printed in The New Orleans Picayune. For those of you of the academic bent, the Thompson case was a major inspiration and source for Herman Melville's 1857 novel The Confidence-Man."

"So here's your assignment for today: grab a classmate or two and figure out what small-talk you need to make to get them to trust you. Think about what non-verbal cues you are looking for in people that let you steer the conversation, and give you the advantage you need to gain someone's confidence."

[OOC: Please hold for the OCD. Up early again due to Conference #2.]