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[prof-cregg.livejournal.com]

[She looks sleepy, but she's jacked up on coffee and on a roll. Expect questions. Lots of questions.


Ok, we've played games, now let's bring it back...honesty and communication. Tell me what you understand about honesty and it's role as relates to influence, manipulation, friendship, trust and reciprocity? How do we recognize honesty? In what ways do we try to assure the honesty of those we communicate with? And what about body language? Is body language honest?

And now tell me how this fits with sender/message/receiver.

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[prof-cregg.livejournal.com]

But what if dishonesty is the basis of that relationship, and you both recognize that?

[http://users.livejournal.com/sydney_bristow_/]

"You can't have a relationship based on dishonesty." Sydney says. "Living a lie is no way to live, it...east at you."

[prof-cregg.livejournal.com]

When we live a lie, how do we cope? What are some things we do to stay grounded in reality? In honesty with ourselves if no one else?

[http://users.livejournal.com/sydney_bristow_/]

"We keep hoping someday we'll believe the lie too."

[prof-cregg.livejournal.com]

And do we? Can we accept that message when we are both sender AND receiver? [She looks at Sydney softly. She can tell she's getting to one of Sydney's issues...and she steps lightly, ready to back off at any second.]

[http://users.livejournal.com/sydney_bristow_/]

"Well we try, but I don't think we can truly accept it."

[prof-cregg.livejournal.com]

Why not? Have you ever lied to yourself, Sydney?

[http://users.livejournal.com/sydney_bristow_/]

Sydney looks uncomfortable

[prof-cregg.livejournal.com]

Of, course you have, we all do. It makes life easier sometimes. Ok...moving on. Next? Or do you have anything else, Sydney?

[http://users.livejournal.com/sydney_bristow_/]

"No I'm done." Syd says

[prof-cregg.livejournal.com]

All right, hon. Well done. Ok...next?