Fandom High Welcome Picnic, Front Lawn of the School, All Day: Part II

[bigdamnprincipal]

There were tables and chairs set up all around the lawn. Some were in the sun, where folks could soak up that precious vitamin D, and some were in the shade where folks could stay cool.

All of the tables had at least a little glitter on them though. It was a welcoming gesture to get glitter someplace you didn't know glitter could go!

[OCD is up! This is the picnic post for general mingling. Roommates, fake siblings and teachers are all here. Since it's outside, the picnic is open to all students, teachers, and townies!]

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Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[spin_kick_snap]

Kathy nodded, giving Ringo a warm smile. "I get that," she said. "Sometimes you just need to go somewhere where no one knows you and has no expectations for you to try to meet while you recover your equilibrium."

Or just the need to get away from the oppressive expectations of others and to find out who you really were. Kathy knew that one from personal experience.

"And, hey, if you ever wanna talk about stuff, I'm in room 518. I mean, I know, I'm a stranger, but sometimes that's easier than trying to talk to someone who knows you better."

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[soniaroadsqueen]

As much the second one as the first, really.

Ringo's expression softened, then brightened, at Kathy's offer. "That's really sweet of you," she said. "And... I might just take you up on that..."

She grinned. "Besides, I'm apparently in room 506, so it's probably not that far away!"

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[spin_kick_snap]

"Just down the hall," Kathy agreed, nodding. "Same side of the hall and everything. Feel free to stop by anytime. My roommate's leaving sometime this summer and I'll need someone to remind me to put the textbooks down and talk to real people sometime that week."

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[soniaroadsqueen]

"Remind you...? Oh!" Ringo grinned in understanding. "Study a lot, do you?"

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[spin_kick_snap]

Sorry! I missed this ping!

"Yeah," Kathy said with a small nod and a rueful smile. "I'm trying to get into a really good college, so I've got to have a GPA high enough to be competitive for not only acceptance, but also financial aid."

And, you know, she was good at studying and it made her feel productive, but she was trying not to sound too nerdy the first day.

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[soniaroadsqueen]

"University, huh?" Well, that wasn't actually something Ringo had ever given any thought to. She was only a freshman, so that seemed pretty far into the future for her.

"What are you going to study?"

[ooc: Not a problem. It was kinda a busy weekend...]

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[spin_kick_snap]

"Umm, medicine, probably," Kathy said. "I kinda grew up assuming I'd be a doctor."

Her parents had been telling her she'd be a doctor her whole life. Now that she was on the island, Kathy had come to the slow (and embarrassingly obvious) conclusion that she didn't have to be one. Now she just had to figure out if she wanted to.

"But that's what your freshman year of college is for, right? Figuring out just what you want to do with the rest of it?"

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[soniaroadsqueen]

"Really?" Ringo frowned slightly. "I thought you had to have a pretty good idea of what you wanted to study. How else would you know which classes to take?"

Different countries, different expectations.

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[spin_kick_snap]

"The first year is mostly gen eds," Kathy explained. "I mean, I'd like to start my freshman year with a bunch of those out of the way already, but there will still be some I can take while I figure things out." She shrugged. "I mean, it'll probably end up being medicine, but it almost seems wasteful to not look into other things while I'm still in school, you know?"

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[soniaroadsqueen]

"That makes sense."

"If you don't want to do something, you shouldn't have to, so being sure that you do want to is a really good idea."

Though.

"But maybe it also is good not to worry about too far into the future? I mean, I guess you're closer to having to know than I am, but the future will take care of itself. Or something?" She was pretty sure that there was some cliche.

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[spin_kick_snap]

"And med school is a lot of time and money if I'm not 100% sure I want to go through with it," Kathy agreed. "Though if it turns out I don't want to become a doctor, I'm going to need all the time I can get trying to convince my parents not to disown me."

The Li family had very specific expectations for their daughters, oh yes.

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[soniaroadsqueen]

Ringo started to smile at the joke, then frowned as something in Kathy's tone registered. "They wouldn't really disown you, would they?"

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[spin_kick_snap]

"It would probably depend on what I decided to do instead," Kathy said, entirely too seriously for it to be a joke, yes. Then she noticed Ringo's frown and immediately smiled, trying to play it off. "No, of course not. Not really. They're just really excited about their little girl being in such a respected profession. That's all."

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[soniaroadsqueen]

Nice try, Kathy, but Ringo didn't look entirely convinced.

"Are they very strict, then?" And, relatedly, "And is it so important that you be a doctor?"

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[spin_kick_snap]

"Well, they just want what's best for me, you know?" Kathy asked, sounding a little defensive. Which probably answered several of Ringo's questions right there. "They wanted to instill a decent work ethic in me and my sister so we'd be successful, you know?"

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[soniaroadsqueen]

"Well, that makes sense," Ringo had to admit. "Just as long you get to have some fun, too. And get to do what you want to with your life."

She frowned slightly. "Doing what other people want you to at the expense of your own dreams can be pretty tough."

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[spin_kick_snap]

"Sounds like you know about that from experience," Kathy said, deflecting the conversation back to Ringo. "Does that fit in with why you're here?" She flushed a little. "If I'm getting too personal, you can absolutely tell me to back off."

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[soniaroadsqueen]

"Well," Ringo's smile was still there, but it was definitely a bit more strained, old memories clouding her eyes a bit. "I suppose it is, really. A chance to get away from old expectations and responsibilities and just, well, see who I am underneath it all?"

There were parts of who Ringo had been that she wasn't really happy about.

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[spin_kick_snap]

"This is a really good place to do that," Kathy said. "Trust me. Speaking from experience here."

Kathy had done a lot of that since she'd arrived as a sophomore. And she was really starting to like who she was becoming.

"You have the freedom to find out who you are when no one's looking and because of how weird the island is, it's also a good place to figure out who you are when the chips are down, too."

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[soniaroadsqueen]

It was subtle, but Ringo's stance relaxed just a bit in relief at the reassurance. She'd been hoping! But it was always nice to have a voice of experience agree.

"Weird like all the glitter weird?" she asked, amused. "Or Pinkie Pie?"

Because definitely weird!

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[spin_kick_snap]

"Weird enough that even Pinkie Pie seems normal," Kathy said with an amused shake of her head. "Did your big sibling cover invasions? Or the dragons that showed up this past graduation? Because, yeah, those are things. That happen. Sorry."

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[soniaroadsqueen]

"I think I can handle a little weird. Maybe it'll even be good for me. But," she hesitated before asking, "are they dangerous?" Because Pinkie Pie didn't seem dangerous.

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[spin_kick_snap]

"Some things are," Kathy said. "I mean, Pinkie isn't, not unless you have, like, a glitter-allergy or something. But sometimes things happen and, yeah, they can be pretty dangerous. But the dorms are usually safe and I think Caritas has some kind of safety spell on it, so if you're not a fighter, you can stay in either of those places and you'll be fine."

So...maybe a little reassuring?

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[soniaroadsqueen]

Ringo frowned down at her feet, looking thoughtful. When she spoke, her voice was soft. "I just don't like people getting hurt."

Again with the voice of experience.

Re: Mingling and Such [Summer 2015]

[spin_kick_snap]

"Neither do I," Kathy agreed. "It's one of the reasons I'm leaning towards being a doctor. So I can help people who have been."

There wasn't much else she could say to that, either. People were going to get hurt, regardless of how either of them felt about it. That wasn't a Fandom thing, it was a real life thing. But Kathy had a feeling Ringo knew that already.