Romance 101, Wednesday, Period 4 -- Class 2

[carpe_demon]

"All right, today we're going to talk about" -- Drake snapped his fingers and there was the appropriate sound effect -- "the First Date. Yeah, they can be terrifying. And exciting. The key is just to relax and be yourself. And if it doesn't work out" -- cue another sound effect -- "at least you tried.

"If you're already known the person for awhile, you've got an advantage in knowing what they like to do. If you don't, try to get an idea from their friends. If you're completely in the dark, go for something like dinner and a movie, but make sure you have a back-up plan in case your date doesn't eat the kind of food at your first restaurant of choice. Try a hike and a picnic, or spend some time at the beach or at a zoo, or maybe a museum or art gallery. Creativity is a plus, but don't go too overboard, or you'll have a tough act to follow for the second date.

"Two things are the most important to remember: be yourself. Don't work too hard to impress your date. You want them to like you for you, not someone you're pretending to be. And have a sense of humor. Something is probably going to go wrong -- you'll spill a drink, you'll lose your tickets, you'll set your date on fire -- but if you can laugh it off, you'll be able to relax and have a good time.

"Now, I want you to grab a partner and pretend you're going out on a first date. Decide where you're going to go, then act like you're really there." Drake grinned, and added, "Try to pair up with someone you don't know already so you really get that awkward effect."

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Re: Date Time! [Romance 101 - Class 2]

[glacial_queen]

"Considering your rough is still probably better than my most polished? Absolutely," Karla said, laughing a bit.

Re: Date Time! [Romance 101 - Class 2]

[boho-to-be.livejournal.com]

"Consider yourself warned," Christian laughed. "All right. This is -- a kind of nature poem."

He read the words from his notebook, glancing occasionally up at Karla as he talked.

"You would not believe your eyes
If ten million fireflies
Lit up the world as I fell asleep

'Cause they'd fill the open air
And leave teardrops everywhere
You'd think me rude
But I would just stand and stare

I'd like to make myself believe
That planet Earth turns slowly
It's hard to say that I'd rather stay
Awake when I'm asleep
'Cause everything is never as it seems

'Cause I'd get a thousand hugs
From ten thousand lightning bugs
As they tried to teach me how to dance

"... and that's as far as I've gotten," he finished.

[OOC: "Fireflies" is by Owl City, whom I am not.]

Re: Date Time! [Romance 101 - Class 2]

[glacial_queen]

Karla smiled at him when he finished, clapping softly so she didn't disturb her classmates and their dates. "This sounds silly," she said, "But I liked the imagery. Just the idea of a a place filled with ten million tiny fireflies, winking on and off, you know? I just kind of imagine two people running through the woods while it's raining, with lightning bugs lighting their way. Umm...I hope that didn't sound stupid."

Re: Date Time! [Romance 101 - Class 2]

[boho-to-be.livejournal.com]

"Not stupid at all, that is exactly what I was trying to get across," Christian said enthusiastically. "The feeling of, of a summer evening in the country, surrounded by little flying specks of light. I'm so glad you enjoyed it!"

Re: Date Time! [Romance 101 - Class 2]

[glacial_queen]

"I've spent my fair share of summer evenings chasing fireflies when I was a little girl," Karla admitted, smiling. "There's a loch, not too far from the estate. It was deep, but so, so clear. It would reflect the fireflies so well, it was like swimming through hundreds of tiny stars. Your poem reminded of those warm summer evenings some."