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Fandom High Welcome Picnic, Front Lawn of the School, All Day: Part II

Were you a veteran Fandom resident? Did you finish getting your brain broken by your sibling and/or buddy? Did you just want to sit down to recover from the shuttle ride? If so, then there were plenty of tables and chairs set up across the lawn just waiting to be filled!

[This is the picnic post for general mingling. Roommates, fake siblings and teachers are all here. Since it's outside, the picnic is open to all students, teachers, and townies!]

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"And you don't think it's just a little absurd to hold an entire sex accountable for something none of the current members alive were responsible for?" Kathy asked. "That's like arresting people now because a family member from a thousand years ago committed a crime."

As opposed to the patriarchy, Kathy?

"Why do you think we blame them?" Jalian shrugged. "Margra Hammel was being careful, so soon after the Fire. We have a lot of males now. They're not very bright, but they're good for some things. Not just children," she added charitably.

Kathy also thought the patriarchy was terrible!

"That's really sexist," Kathy said, inwardly quailing at calling someone out, but unable to back down. Social Justice Warrior strikes again! "It sounds like what a lot of guys say about women now. Or about black people and Latinos... Basically, it sounds like what every prejudiced member of the majority says when they're talking about a member of the minority they don't respect."

Jalian wasn't going to get upset at that, but she was going to get confused for a moment while she worked out the vocabulary. Then she shrugged. "The males here are mostly different. What are Latinos?"

"Probably because they haven't been raised as second-class citizens all their lives." In fact, they had the opposite problem, but that was an argument for another day. "How many of them do you actually know, besides just generalizing them in a group?"

Kathy forced herself not to fold her arms over her chest. Aggressive body language would just escalate the conversation. "And Latinos are an enthnic minority here in America. They get stereotyped and treated as different and lesser by members of the minority because of their skin color and various racial prejudices people have internalized."

"I know several males here. I used to know most of Ken Selvren ones my age, until I began learning. Then I didn't have time." Jalian shrugged.

"You have made their acquaintance," Kathy argued. "You don't know them. It's not the same thing."

Jalian scowled, tried to figure that out, then gave up and muttered something in Silverspeech that would have translated to "stupid language". "What is the difference?"

"Do you see them as individuals? Do you know what they think and feel? Personally, versus just what you assume because they're male? Do you even feel like that stuff matters?"

Kathy frowned, trying to figure a good way to explain. "When you think of them, do you think of them as individuals, people with their own personalities and dreams and feelings? Or just part of the background, people you can differentiate from strangers only because you recognize their names and faces?"

Jalian thought about it and shrugged. "There were around twenty males in my age grouping; there are probably eight now." They'd lost a lot of the field workers in the Battle of the Meadow. "I know three?"

"Just know by name and face?" Kathy asked. "Or know them well enough to be considered friends? Or, heck, know them well enough to respect as a person?"

Jalian threw up her hands. "I know what games they liked as children! Why should I know them better than their sisters?"

Jalian didn't exactly hang out with the rest of her clan much.

Kathy was starting to get that idea.

"Because you don't treat their sisters like second-class citizens," she pointed out. "Because I bet you think of them as individuals, but lump all their brothers together. And that's wrong."

This debate was making Kathy's stomach ache; she hated confrontation. But she wasn't going to back down. There was still a lot of Social Justice Warrior in Banzai.

If it helped that stomachache at all, Jalian wasn't angry, just a bit exasperated. "The ones I don't know well, how else should I think of them but as one?" she asked. "The same with girls and with elder Huntresses and Corvichi I don't know. I know them all by sight and I know their names."

"The difference is how you think of them, compared to the girls and the elder Huntresses and the...Corvids?" Kathy stumbled over the unfamiliar term. "How should males be treated if they disrespect you? How should females? Why the difference?"

"Corvichi," Jalian corrected. She shrugged. "A male I would thump; a female I would challenge. You can't challenge a male; it wouldn't be fair."

All things told, the men were less likely to get stabbed or dead from it, so...win?

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