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Living With Difficult Women [Tuesday, Period 5]

"I feel like breaking into groups last week ended up being quite productive," Max began. Even if he was worried that some of his students were learning far too much for his peace of mind. Still, considering that some of his students insisted that they didn't know any difficult women, it was well worth increasing the world's supply.

"Additionally, I believe seeing some of the things I'm trying to teach in action provided a better understanding of what we're trying to learn here. Demonstrations are always more useful than theory, after all. So with that in mind, I've asked someone else to assist me this week, and luckily for all of you, she graciously agreed."

He grinned over at Ghani, waving for her to introduce herself to anyone who didn't already know her.

The Ghanima that stepped forward was a very different one than anyone who'd taken her classes was used to seeing. Head up, shoulders back, and a slightly haughty cast to her features. She'd even pulled out one of her crowns. Max so owed her for this. "As Professor Maximus stated, he asked me to attend your class today."

"For those of you whom are not familiar with me, I am Lady Ghanima Atreides, Princess Royal, and heir to the Imperium and the Known Universe," she said briskly. "'Difficult' is perhaps one of the kinder names I have been called behind my back."

"But," Max smirks, "not to your face, I hope." He suspected that anyone foolish enough to do that deserved what they got. "Anyway," he waved, "while I understand that some of you come from worlds where women are not placed in positions of authority, most of you are from places that make it virtually inevitable that you'll one day be placed under the orders of a difficult woman. In fact, those very women tend to make rather effective leaders. So you'll need to have a good idea of how to deal with them effectively."

"You do not 'deal' with an effective leader," Ghanima cut in, surveying the class coldly. "You serve, and you obey. If you are a member of the counsel, you can object, beg, plead, and challenge, but in the end it is down to the mandate of heaven. The strongest hold the throne, and you do not want to undermine a ruler that is otherwise effective with your own petty grievances or moral quibbles. The manner with which you approach a problem can make all the difference in the world."

"Many of the techniques used here are used for anyone in a position of authority," Max added. Okay, so they were all identical, but this class was about difficult women, and since the techniques happened to work on that subset, well... that was close enough. "The thing to remember is that you can not defy your superiors." Openly. "If they're competent," he nodded at Ghani, which he would have done even if she hadn't been incredibly competent, "this doesn't matter as their orders will be good ones. But even if they're incompetent you can't defy them." Again, openly.

Max paused and glanced over at Ghani to see if she had anything to add on the subject.

"You can't defy them openly." What? Ghanima was going to say it. "There are usually a number of ways to work around someone in power, although Max has an excellent point. If they're competent, you don't need to worry about their orders, as they will usually be well thought-out. You may not always like them, or know the reasons behind them, but your leader sincerely believes it to be the best option available."

"When faced with an incompetent and unapproachable authority, sometimes subterfuge is your best option. However, if you are caught out, resist the urge to deflect or deny. If you are going to make the decision to subvert an order, you must be prepared to take responsibility for your actions. You must never ask anyone to do something that you are not willing to do, or risk consequences that you are not prepared to face."

"One option to consider is that sometimes you can fulfill inane orders quickly while appearing to do so slowly. This allows you to undertake actually valuable projects 'on the side' as it were. But, again, there is a risk if you're caught. Not as much of one, since you're actually doing as ordered, but it is an unfortunate fact that plenty of terrible leaders are clever enough to pick up on what you're doing."

"Still, if you're lucky, whoever's in charge is a reasonable person." He smiled over at Ghani. 'What would you say is the best way to approach a reasonable leader, whether they're competent or not?"

"Have your facts together. Be able to state your case concisely and reasonably. Do not go casting blame and pointing fingers, but offer viable, practical solutions to the problem at hand," Ghanima answered. "Do not try to fix all the problems at once. Start small, build credibility, and work your way up to being known as being someone dependable and reasonable, rather than just some troublemaker that wants to overhaul everything. If you have a reputation for being responsible and of sound judgement, then you are that much closer to being taken seriously. Not just by your leader, but by your comrades as well. Without their support, you will never met your goals."

"Exactly," Max agreed. "Now, much like last week, we'll be splitting into discussion groups. Both Ghnima and I have been involved in these sorts of situations from different directions, so we each have different perspectives. Pick the one you think will be most helpful to you."
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[identity profile] decoder-rings.livejournal.com 2010-02-09 11:56 am (UTC)(link)
All Hannibal got from that lecture that Professor Atreides was hot (what?) and she was kind of scary. He listened, mind you, but he had the mind of a teenage male and couldn't help himself.

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[identity profile] decoder-rings.livejournal.com 2010-02-09 11:58 am (UTC)(link)
Hannibal's sole female authority figures had been his mother and teachers and they hadn't been anything like that. He figured he could get some tips for when it did happen.
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[personal profile] intraspective 2010-02-09 01:07 pm (UTC)(link)
...

...yeah, Ino was just going to slink down into her desk and resist the urge to go 'LA LA LA' at the whole lecture.

Someone was bad at dealing with authority if it wasn't of a very specific type, yes.

And it had absolutely nothing to do with the fact that Lady Ghanima was the sole teacher who terrified her. Absolutely. Nothing.

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[identity profile] likes-chicken.livejournal.com 2010-02-09 02:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Hurley was failing to take notes.

He'd regret that in a couple years, when having to deal with the leadership skills of a certain Dr. Shephard.
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[personal profile] atreideslioness 2010-02-09 03:00 pm (UTC)(link)
"I've been both a 'difficult woman' in command, and taken orders from other strong-willed leaders, of both the reasonable and unreasonable variety, of both genders," Ghanima stated. "I'm happy to answer any questions you might have."

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[identity profile] notqueenyet.livejournal.com 2010-02-09 05:41 pm (UTC)(link)
"Do you find it more difficult, as a woman, to exert your power in light of patriarchy?" Aravis asked curiously, as this had always been her main difficulty in both Archenland and Calormen.

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[identity profile] bloody-luck.livejournal.com 2010-02-09 05:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Ghanima reminded Mat of many of the women he'd dealt with at home--a combination of Siuan Sanche and Elaida. So he was doing his best to not look like he needed a swift kick in the rear end.

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[identity profile] bloody-luck.livejournal.com 2010-02-09 06:07 pm (UTC)(link)
"What if it's a little...difficult to tell who's in charge?" Mat replied. "And what if the women in charge aren't used to taking any advice from men at all?"
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[personal profile] atreideslioness 2010-02-09 06:33 pm (UTC)(link)
"When dealing with ambassadors or people from patriarchal cultures, yes," Ghanima agreed. "However, there are a few Great Houses and other organizations in my universe where women wield power, so it is not difficult day-to-day, only on the occasional diplomatic occasion."

"And those who seem to think that going around me is preferable to dealing with a woman often find themselves sitting out on a dune without water." Ghanima did not have patience for nonsense.
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[personal profile] atreideslioness 2010-02-09 06:39 pm (UTC)(link)
"One thing that it is important to remember is that traditionally, in many cultures, women have had more to fear from men than men have had to fear women," Ghanima replied seriously. "Even those of us with extra talents to that us safe may lash out when cornered, due to the ancestral memories of times that we could not defend ourselves."

"When dealing with anyone new to power or not used to taking advice, be sure to keep your movements non-threatening and neutral. Never patronize, but so long as you aren't pounding the table or getting in their face, that's a very good start."

"As to figuring out who's in charge..." Ghanima smiled slightly. "Watch who the youngest members of the group defer to. That's who's really in charge of a situation. Maybe you have to go through them to get to a nominal leader."

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[identity profile] bloody-luck.livejournal.com 2010-02-09 06:55 pm (UTC)(link)
"That's the bloody problem," Mat said. "Well, one of the bloody problems. The first one being that Aes Sedai all look the same bloody age. The other is that they are all deferring to an eighteen year old slip of a girl from the middle of bloody nowhere and that makes no sense at all, even for rebels."
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[personal profile] atreideslioness 2010-02-09 07:41 pm (UTC)(link)
"Watch who she talks to, who talks to her, and where those people go after they talk with her," Ghanima suggested. "If she isn't really the leader, then there will be a trail back to the person who is."

"However, age does not necessarily denote seniority," she pointed out. "At the moment, I am one of the most important people in the Imperium, outranking even my stepmother and grandmother. Don't let age blind you to power."

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[identity profile] bloody-luck.livejournal.com 2010-02-09 07:45 pm (UTC)(link)
"I remember watching her get paddled until she squealed for taking apples from a tree not so many years ago," Mat replied. "I'm not used to being expected to bow to her. No one outranks the Amyrlin Seat except maybe Rand."

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[personal profile] atreideslioness 2010-02-09 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
"When it comes to politics, a shared past might make things harder, rather than easier, if she feels she has to prove herself," Ghanima pointed out. "If bowing causes too much friction on your end, try a small gentlemanly bow, like you would to any lady, and verbally acknowledge her title."

"But save the reminders that you've seen her 'get paddled' until you're behind closed doors, away from her other advisers."

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[identity profile] bloody-luck.livejournal.com 2010-02-09 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Mat looked a little pleased with himself: he'd thought of that on his own! And yes, it had mostly come out of pique for the way the other Aes Sedai weren't offering Egwene the proper respect, but still! He had instincts for this!

"If her advisors would extend the same bloody courtesy, that would be a bleeding miracle," he replied. "Nynaeve doesn't think I've aged much past ten."
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[personal profile] atreideslioness 2010-02-09 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
The aforementioned awesome person (me) now has to cover for her not-so-awesome boss and teach tonight.

I am on AIM and gchat if anyone needs me, and should be around for an hour before my students arrive. ACTUALLY home sometime after 9CST.
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[personal profile] thatsamilkshake 2010-02-09 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Francine was mostly used to... doing what people in authority said. And possibly sticking out her tongue behind their back if they were exceptionally jerky about it. Then again... there were people like Darcy Parker. So. Not that she ever expected to get near that woman again, but just in case, she'd be listening.